Wish List
We all want our gifts to please our partner, but sometimes we doubt if we've chosen the right gift. With this idea, that won't happen anymore. It's about having your partner fill out a list where they put all the things they wish for. From there, we can choose one thing or another to give them. We can also add more things to the list on our own, as long as they hint at something they would like. It's important to make it clear that not everything on the list has to be fulfilled (although you might do it later ;)) it's just a reference for future gifts or surprises. Ideally, both of you should exchange lists, so you can also choose what you'd like to receive. Isn't that a good idea?
Encourage yourselves to put this idea into practice this Christmas, but transform it into a "letter to Santa."
"Dear Santa, I've been very good this year..."